Amy: maybe...the limiting factor/party should initiate
Amy: *shrug i just don't kno how you determine that
Judy: what is the limiting factor?
Amy: well...say...jack likes jill
Amy: and jack kinda drops some hints
Amy: but jill's not feeling the same way...or she's not ready
Amy: so jack goes back to being the good guy friend
Amy: but if jill ends up liking jack...she should VERBALLY say something
Amy: she's the limiting factor
Judy: or she could just show interest
Judy: until the moment of passion
Judy: and then you don't even have to say anything!
Amy: ...i never noticed, but you're quite the romantic judy...
Judy: i'm romantic
Judy: ivan is too
Amy: i can't imagine
Judy: i hate it when he ruins our moments
Judy: by telling me i'm dumb or annoying
Judy: like when i ask him IF HE'S SO GLAD WE'RE TOGETHER
Judy: he just tells me i'm dumb
Judy: and then i'll tell him we need couples therapy
Judy: and he'll tell me to get a life
how romantic.
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Isn't it romantic?
Music in the night, a dream that can be heard
Isn't It Romantic? Mel Torme
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p.s. caveat:
Nancy: i'm not sure how i feel about your "limiting factor" theory
Nancy: what if they both don't know what's going on?
Nancy: in a situation of mutual cluelessness
Amy: then THAT SUCKS
ok. so it's not foolproof. in the case of "mutual cluelessness," one of them's got to SUCK IT UP and take a risk.
life's a gamble.
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Isn't it romantic?
Music in the night, a dream that can be heard
Isn't It Romantic? Mel Torme
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p.s. caveat:
Nancy: i'm not sure how i feel about your "limiting factor" theory
Nancy: what if they both don't know what's going on?
Nancy: in a situation of mutual cluelessness
Amy: then THAT SUCKS
ok. so it's not foolproof. in the case of "mutual cluelessness," one of them's got to SUCK IT UP and take a risk.
life's a gamble.

